Ephemera * Etherea

hisdirtylittlegirlbunny: cumfordaddy: Unf! Daddy Daddy Daddy...

Wed, 25 Jul 2012 11:13:43 -0400

hisdirtylittlegirlbunny:

cumfordaddy:

Unf!

Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy!!!! I wanna go back to boston!

Get your Doctor Who butt back on TV.

Wed, 25 Jul 2012 11:11:41 -0400

Get your Doctor Who butt back on TV.

Some foods make me me think of life and vibrancy and so are...

Wed, 25 Jul 2012 11:05:32 -0400

Some foods make me me think of life and vibrancy and so are arousing in many ways.

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Wed, 25 Jul 2012 11:04:37 -0400

“Oh, you expected ME to keep in contact with YOU, but not...

Tue, 10 Jul 2012 13:16:53 -0400

“Oh, you expected ME to keep in contact with YOU, but not vise-versa? My bad, I forgot that’s how friendship worked.”

Gotta love this in every way lol.

Fallen Angels BDSM Club on Second Life

Mon, 09 Jul 2012 22:34:45 -0400

I asked that a serious question be answered first. Was this rule about Switches, that had been put in place over a year ago, going to be changed back to how it was before, with both Dominant and submissive discussions being open to Switches and of course Switch discussions being open to all.

The response I received was that it would be left to the individual bias and prejudice of each discussion facilitator and should a facilitator decide to block Switches from attending, they may ask for verification of what someone identified as (“papers papers, where are your BDSM papers!?”) or decide to boot based on rumor.

A cop out so that management would not have to make a firm decision, make a statement about Fallen values, and actually lead. All in the name of making “most” feel comfortable. Somehow this seemed justified. Hey it doesn’t affect the majority so what do they care, right?

I resigned.

~~~

After recounting my tale, I was told by a friend that there are no rights on Second Life.

I laughed because I suppose they are right.

If the the Voting Rights Act and Civil Rights Act had been left up to some in Second Life, I’m inclined to believe after today that women wouldn’t have the vote and we’d still have segregation in the U.S.

After all, once the majority feels comfortable, everything is justified. That was the bill of goods someone attempted to sell me today. Thank the Goddess that the U.S. doesn’t rely on popular vote for such things.

~~~

I returned to Fallen Angels BDSM Club in Second Life in June of this year (2012). I worked there previously for about 10 months and left in May of 2011.

I returned because I was told by one of the previous owners, someone I respect, that things were changing and the old Fallen was being brought back. She was already back. I was amazed and ecstatic. She told me to come and I bounced right over.

I hadn’t stepped foot in the place for 14 months.

I left, others left, and then the club proceeded to spiral into a junior high state of cliques and ranks. All I ever heard about Fallen from friends was bad news for more than a year after I quit.

I am a cautious person by nature. I’ve let passions get the better of me in SL and made a firm decision that this time around, I would have clear perspective. Second Life is but one aspect of reality and not the most important aspect by far.

~~~

I was re-instated to all my former duties and roles and took up the regular Saturday munches. I was asked to lead other discussions that align with my interests and who I am. Daddy and babygirl discussion groups. Polyamory discussion groups.

I declined because I wanted to get my bearings and see which way was up at Fallen now. Was the place really changing for the better again? I also didn’t want to burn out as I had before. I kept my distance as the last gasps of drama from those who had brought Fallen low were sounded.

Some were asked to leave and some left of their own volition. With a slew of unnecessary dramatic flourishes in the staff group and main group.

The facilitator for the Switch discussion group became vacant though I don’t know if that was related to the nonsense above. No details were given to me. But I was asked if I would step in.

This goes back to the reason I left Fallen to begin with.

~~~

May 2011

The majority decided that Switches, a group of people who identify as both Dominant and submissive, would be blocked from attending either Dominant or submissive discussion groups. The reason was “safety”.

Apparently Switches inherently have a flaw in character which threatens the safety of those who aren’t Switches.

I was disgusted by this and as usual, those who this little rule did not affect had no problem with it.

It was ironic because previously there was such a outcry against having a TNG group (The Next Generation, aimed at 18-35 demographic in the bdsm community) within Fallen because older members felt their sense of entitlement disturbed. How dare someone try to exclude them from something? It’s always a travesty when it’s “you” and a shame when it’s “them”.

~~~

June 2012 - July 2012

Nothing has changed.

~~~

I am happy that I have some knowledge of how BDSM groups and clubs work in First Life. They are inclusive and seek to educate and they flourish because of that. There is a keen understanding of what being a Dominant, Submissive and Switch means. This sensitivity leads to the needs of the entire group being addressed without a stigma being placed on anyone. And safety is always uncompromisingly maintained.

The age of Fallen Angels BDSM Club being the gold standard on Second Life and the closest thing people will get to a First Life BDSM club in a virtual world is done.

I’ve cut all ties to Fallen. It was one step on a journey and I have better things to do than deal with the same old nonsense all over again. I’ll keep to being centered on what BDSM actually is and let others continue to play make-believe at being BDSM leadership.

view-earth: Mountain_landscape (by Valter49)

Mon, 09 Jul 2012 14:18:34 -0400

view-earth:

Mountain_landscape (by Valter49)

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Mon, 09 Jul 2012 14:18:25 -0400

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Mon, 09 Jul 2012 12:43:22 -0400

This is hilarious.

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 17:40:45 -0400

This is hilarious.

kateordie: briawesome: fixed it. Head shot

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 17:39:38 -0400

kateordie:

briawesome:

fixed it.

Head shot

(Music time again. Really feeling this song for various reasons....

Thu, 15 Mar 2012 16:14:00 -0400

(Music time again. Really feeling this song for various reasons. Coldplay sounds sweet.)

Fix You by Coldplay

When you try your best, but you don’t succeed
When you get what you want, but not what you need
When you feel so tired, but you can’t sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can’t replace
When you love someone, but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you’re too in love to let it go
But if you never try you’ll never know
Just what you’re worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Tears stream down on your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
Tears stream down on your face
And I…

Tears stream down on your face
I promise you that I will learn from mistakes.
Tears stream down on your face
And I…

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Almost 10 months since the release of XMFC back in June last year

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 14:15:13 -0400

lol

veldargone:

and McFassy Tuesday is still the ritual that people do in tumblr.

Fuck yeah fellow mutants!

Oh I see it. I see it. Don’t worry....

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 13:52:07 -0400

Oh I see it. I see it. Don’t worry. *giggles*

mishjerry:

For Fassavoy fans. I sometimes wonder if other people see these things…

30 Day Fandom Crush Meme Day 18: Mythical Creature Crush

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 13:51:38 -0400

Oh I loved Mr. Tumnus. Took me a moment to realize why James McAvoy seemed sooooo familiar. I’ve seen him in sooo many movies. Ha! That’s why.

scribbles5thm:

Mr. Tumnus

Mostly because Jame McAvoy, but whatevs.

Mmm, yummy James McAvoy. So distinguished.

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 13:50:00 -0400

Mmm, yummy James McAvoy. So distinguished.

People in Second Life aka Some Lunatics in SL

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 13:43:00 -0400

People in Second Life aka Some Lunatics in SL:

This blog post cracked me up.

And it’s just about what my feelings are regarding pointless stalker actions taken by an ex of mine against one of my lovers at the end of last week. He only succeeded in showing how pitiful and jealous he truly is, in addition to why so many end up leaving him without a trace.

It’s weird because I’d forgotten about this guy. Too much incompetence and drama and deceit. And I had better things to do with my time.

It’s almost like fatal attraction. All I can say is GET OVER IT. *sob sob* “They don’t wanna be with me anymore so I’m gonna throw a tantrum and try to dig into their RL.” I cannot even say high school… it’s junior high.

There are people who do not have lives beyond the computer or video games. Self-confessed of having no friends offline. They are miserable and they cannot stand to see others happy when they are not.

Well guess what?

I’m happy and have love and light in my life. They do not have these things. The envy and efforts of my ex are funny though.

This is the last thought I will give to stalker bi-polar ex.

I can only imagine this man is looking for legal action to be taken if he continues to try to attack people offline.

LoL, and I’d get a kick out of that too.

Now back to your regularly scheduled non-lunacy channel. Hehe

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Fri, 09 Mar 2012 20:01:57 -0500

I’m obsessed with James McAvoy and Michael Fassbender...

Fri, 09 Mar 2012 20:01:41 -0500

I’m obsessed with James McAvoy and Michael Fassbender right about now…

the funk soul brother.

*giggles* And I love reading slash fanfiction about them as Professor Charles Xavier and Erik Lensherr (aka Magneto).

Oh… hell… YES!

Fri, 09 Mar 2012 19:24:14 -0500

Oh… hell… YES!